I recently had the good fortune and opportunity to travel to Botswana on a safari to celebrate my mother’s 85th birthday. There was a lot of emotion surrounding this trip with my family, and until we were seated on the airplane, I wasn’t certain it would happen.
Just months earlier, my mother had fallen and broken her hip. She had undergone surgery for a serious heart condition. There was a period when none of us knew if she would be able to make the trip and whether we would be going.
Much of my work today and over the past 15+ years revolves around employee communications technology, the digital workplace, and now AI. I spend my days thinking about how technology can help people communicate, create, and be more productive. As I boarded the flight, I wasn’t thinking about this at all. I was thinking about family, uncertainty, and this once-in-a-lifetime experience.
We live in a world where technology allows us to see and experience almost anything instantly. Yet as I settled into my seat for the long journey to Botswana, I couldn’t help but wonder whether we are experiencing less.
I found myself asking the question:
“Is this real?”
For me, the question was about my life, my family, and the wildlife I was about to experience. Until now, all of this was just a visual in my mind or on a screen. Here I was, about to embark on a 20+ hour flight to the other side of the world. It was a place that seemed impossibly far away and different, and yet there I was, on my way to Africa, for real.
What I didn’t realize was that over the next two weeks, I would find myself asking that same question again and again.
The first time came shortly after we arrived.
On our first evening game drive, our guide stopped the vehicle after sunset and told us he had a “surprise.” What could it be? He grabbed a spotlight, scanned the darkness, and suddenly there it was — a leopard emerging from the bush and marking its territory.
My reaction wasn't what I expected.
It wasn’t excitement. It was disbelief.
Was this real?